WHAT PATTERN YOU SEE IN RELATIONSHIP YOU SHOULD WATCH OUT FOR

Peculiar Patterns

A peculiar pattern—even a small one—that repeats in a relationship may be a subtle signal of something important. Pay attention to patterns that seem out of place, unusual, or troubling, even if
you cannot explain why they make you uncomfortable.

Kris launched into a fun and fabulous affair with an unusual man she really liked. They had a humorous rapport and a lot of fun together. Although he was a fairly athletic guy, and they were
both young, she noticed that he was awfully clumsy, and that surprised her. Specifically, he seemed to slip often and accidentally bump her or step on her foot. When she got in and out of the car,
when she was carrying something, or when they went through a doorway, he often seemed to misjudge the distance and would bump into her or even accidentally hit her. He always apologized
lovingly, saying, “Oh, sorry, honey, I’m so clumsy.” Something about this bothered her, but she couldn’t put her finger on it. The mere sensation that something is wrong is often a signal from the deeper mind that you should take seriously. Your bodily sensations can be like the language of your dreams, arising from a deeper wisdom and illustrating important truths about your situation
and your feelings.


One day, they got into a heated argument, and the man struck Kris so hard in the face that the blow lifted her off the ground. As she lay face down on the floor, her ears ringing, the many times this man had “accidentally” hit her flashed through her mind.

“It was there all the time,” she told me later. “He was repeatedly unconsciously hitting me, and I didn’t see that as a part of him; I saw it as an accident. But in a way, it was like his subconscious mind was telling mine: I like to hit women.” If this pattern had been part of a dream, Kris might have recognized that it potentially held important meaning for her. In a similar way, we can sometimes interpret as meaningful a repetitive situation that comes with a peculiar feeling in the body if we pause to consider it and allow ourselves to fully explore the sensation without labeling it or dismissing it in a hurry.



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